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Master of Arts (In Progress): Integrative Health and Well-being Coaching – University of Minnesota (Earl E. Bakken Center for Spirituality and Healing).
Establishing transparent ethical boundaries, understanding trauma-informed healing modalities, and browsing curated LGBTQ+ affirming Minnesota referrals.
My name is Comrade Tom (he/they). I serve as an affirming, non-judgmental thinking partner for individuals navigating the tension between the life they have and the life they want.
This practice operates explicitly on the bridge between clinical stability (asymptomatic) and holistic mental wellness. Services are designed for individuals who have achieved foundational psychological stability and possess the functional capacity and willingness to actively pursue personal growth, health optimization, and self-actualization.
Supporting individuals seeking to align their daily lives, careers, and actions with their internal wisdom. Specialized focus areas include:
The primary population served is LGBTQ+ individuals, with a specific focus on those navigating the unique intersection of minority stress and chronic cultural or systemic invalidation.
As a 39-year-old, cisgender, queer, white man, I actively recognize the unearned social capital and baseline trust my visible identities provide in professional spaces. I intentionally navigate inherent power dynamics by embracing cultural humility and centering the client as the primary authority of their own life.
My services are informed by advanced academic training, evidence-based behavioral change theories, and specialized credentials:
Master of Arts (In Progress): Integrative Health and Well-being Coaching – University of Minnesota (Earl E. Bakken Center for Spirituality and Healing).
Board Alignment: Actively pursuing the National Board for Health & Wellness Coaching (NBHWC) credential, adhering strictly to its code of ethics.
Somatic Training: Mind Body Coaching Certificate (In Progress) through The Embody Lab.
Qualified Administrator: Licensed administrator of the Intercultural Development Inventory (IDI) to dismantle dominant-identity blind spots and support narrative well-being.
Enriched by frameworks including the Enneagram, spiritual development models, 12-step recovery principles, narrative well-being, guided imagery, and safe, educational applications of herbal/aromatherapy.
The practice utilizes universal design principles and features a tiered, community-supported pricing model to actively reduce socioeconomic barriers that disproportionately affect marginalized community members.
Clarifying the egalitarian boundaries between client-centered MindBody Coaching and clinical psychotherapy.
The Non-Clinical Mandate: Coaching is an egalitarian partnership focused on exploring new ways of thinking, being, and experimenting with lifestyle changes. It is forward-facing and action-oriented.
Strict Prohibitions: The coach does not diagnose mental health or medical conditions, prescribe treatment, or provide psychotherapy or other regulated clinical interventions.
I maintain a strict threshold for client safety. A situation exceeds this coaching scope of practice if a client presents with:
If a client poses an imminent risk of serious harm to themselves or others, I will break confidentiality to execute emergency protocols, facilitate immediate crisis resources, or contact requisite emergency services.
I view myself as part of your broader care team. With your explicit, written consent, I am eager to maintain open, collaborative communication with your mental health provider to ensure our coaching habit-architecture and your clinical therapeutic goals are safely and actively aligned.
To maintain professional boundaries and safely navigate complex coaching dynamics, this practice prioritizes ongoing supervision and development through:
Active engagement in somatic professional practice circles and peer networks to review somatic boundaries and client support models.
Utilizing peer support, consultation, and mentoring through the University of Minnesota’s master’s program cohort to review boundary challenges and continuously reinforce best practices.
Demystifying modern, trauma-informed somatic and cognitive therapies to help you navigate your recovery path with confidence.
This educational guide provides a clear breakdown of prominent somatic (body-based), cognitive (mind-based), and parts-based mental health modalities that support recovery from developmental trauma, chronic stress, and complex wounds. Under health coaching standards, I share this information to support your self-determination, autonomy, and help you collaborate effectively with your clinical mental health team.
Developed by Dr. Peter Levine, Somatic Experiencing is a body-oriented approach to healing trauma and other stress disorders. It focuses on the client's perceived body sensations, helping them safely release the biological stress energy that remains locked in the nervous system after a traumatic event.
Rather than relying solely on cognitive "talk therapy," SE teaches the body to renegotiate its survival responses (fight, flight, or freeze) and restore its natural self-regulation, resilience, and sense of safety.
EMDR is an interactive psychotherapy technique used to relieve psychological stress. It is an extensively researched, effective method proven to help people recover from trauma and PTSD symptoms.
During EMDR sessions, the client recalls distressing experiences while the therapist directs lateral eye movements, hand taps, or audio tones. This bilateral stimulation helps the brain reprocess traumatic memories, stripping them of their painful emotional charge and integrating them into a healthy narrative.
Discovered by David Grand, PhD, Brainspotting is a powerful, focused treatment method that works by identifying, processing, and releasing core neurophysiological sources of emotional/body pain, trauma, and dissociation.
Based on the principle that "where you look affects how you feel," Brainspotting uses a pointer to locate specific eye positions (brainspots) that correspond to activated somatic memories in the brain's subcortical region, bypassing the analytical, conscious mind to allow deep, nonverbal processing.
IFS is an integrative, evidence-based approach to psychotherapy developed by Richard Schwartz. It views the human psyche as a complex system of multiple sub-personalities or "parts," each with its own perspective and healthy intentions, though they often take on extreme roles (such as Protectors, Managers, or Exiles) due to trauma.
IFS helps clients access their core "Self"—a seat of compassion, curiosity, and calm—which serves as the natural leader of the system. By cultivating a relationship between the Self and various parts, clients can unburden wounded parts and restore internal harmony.
KAP is a specialized, medically supervised intervention combining low-dose ketamine administration with clinical psychotherapy. It is particularly effective for treatment-resistant depression, anxiety, and complex PTSD.
Ketamine temporarily down-regulates the brain's Default Mode Network (DMN), facilitating rapid neuroplasticity and creating a gentle, altered state of consciousness. This "defensive shield drop" allows clients to process deeply painful memories with a therapist without being overwhelmed by fear or emotional numbness.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a unique, mindfulness-based behavioral therapy that encourages clients to stop fighting their internal distress, practice mindfulness, and commit to actions that align with their core values.
Rather than trying to eliminate or ignore painful thoughts and emotions, ACT teaches psychological flexibility. By learning to accept emotional experiences as natural waves, clients can decenter from them and focus their energy on taking meaningful, value-consistent steps in their daily lives.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a highly structured, evidence-based cognitive-behavioral approach originally developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan to support individuals navigating intense emotional instability.
DBT focuses on teaching concrete skills across four core modules: distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and mindfulness. It operates on the dialectic principle of finding a balance between radical self-acceptance of one's current reality and a committed drive to build healthier, more adaptive behaviors.
Emotion Efficacy Therapy (EET) and Emotion Regulation Therapy (ERT) are modern, interventional frameworks designed to help clients develop a high tolerance for intense emotional distress and physiological activation.
By using mindful exposure, decenter training, and cognitive reframing, EET/ERT teaches clients to observe their emotional reactions as temporary, wave-like signals in the body. This prevents the default "automatic reaction" loop, enabling clients to choose conscious, value-consistent behaviors in high-stress moments instead of turning to avoidance or suppression.
Art Therapy is a creative therapeutic method that utilizes visual art-making, sculpture, drawing, or painting as a primary, nonverbal channel for psychological expression and healing.
Because traumatic memories are often stored somatically and visually in the subcortical brain, verbal talk therapies can sometimes trigger defensive blocks. Art therapy allows clients to safely externalize and process complex emotions, identity boundaries, and painful memories in a symbolic, visual format that words cannot reach.
Sex and Intimacy Therapy is a specialized, trauma-informed approach focused on helping clients process shame, body distress, relationship intimacy blocks, and sexual trauma.
This therapy provides a safe, affirming space to explore sexual health, relationship communication patterns, and identity expression. Clients are supported in establishing healthy, authentic emotional and physical boundaries, dismantling chronic shame, and cultivating authentic intimacy and body connection.
Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) is a non-invasive, FDA-cleared interventional clinical procedure that utilizes highly targeted magnetic pulses to stimulate and modulate specific neural circuits in the brain involved in mood regulation.
Unlike systemic medications that affect the entire body, TMS specifically targets the prefrontal cortex to recalibrate underactive neural pathways. It is widely recognized as a highly effective, clinical-grade solution for treatment-resistant major depressive disorder and obsessive-compulsive symptoms.
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A specialized, non-emergency telephone support line offering free peer-to-peer mental health support, active listening, and recovery resources from certified specialists.
Call 855-WARMLINE or text "Support" to 85511
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If you are in immediate distress, emotional crisis, or are facing an emergency, please prioritize the specialized peer networks and crisis services listed below. This directory is for educational support purposes and is not a substitute for immediate emergency intervention.
Free, confidential, 24/7 clinical mental health support across the United States. Available via call or text.
Call or Text: 988Free, confidential, 24/7 support for any crisis. Text with a trained counselor instantly.
Text HOME to 741741Specialized suicide prevention and crisis counseling for LGBTQ+ young people under age 25.
Call: 1-866-488-7386 or Text START to 678-678A peer-support phone service run by trans people, for trans and questioning peers.
Call: 877-565-8860If you are in immediate physical danger, you can also dial 911 or go to your nearest emergency room.
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